Back To School Series- First day

Your First Day

Well as you probably know I started my first day of school. So, since you probably didnt start yet here's some advice or advice overall. 

• Dont be Shy!

No matter  what ridiculous hair style your mother forced upon you or your 'i tried' style. You hold that head up. Why? Nobody is going to respect you. First days make a HUGE impression. You see, you will be considered quiet and a nerd. Its always instant. Especially if you go to school telling everyone math facts and quoting famous people. JUST NO.

• Dont Talk to Everyone!

That might sound like the worse rule ever but it works. You need people to know (if your an extrovert like me) that your not really going to be talking to some people. You'll know them overtime. Coming up to people extra preppy makes you seem highly suspicious, I mean lets be honest on that one! So talk to someone you know or that one girl or guy commenting on what you say. IN A GOOD WAY! Everyone loves drama but when its you, not so much...

• Stay Quiet!

On the first day you might just want to learn everyone's name. Why? If you get assigned a project and have to partner with them it will get really ugly if your like "Hi um...." NOOOOO. They will hate you for the rest of the year unless they dont talk. Then you have a reason.

• Have Fun! 

Not one of those lame rules. I mean go hardcore man. You see, once middle school comes the rest of your life.. you actually have one! You have a social life! Make sure your friends all do their homework too no matter how much you wanna hang out with them! They'll be known for copying and also you'll be called a sucker for them. 

Now that I've given you advice for the rest of your life you are ready! I bestowed upon you knowledge so go! SHOO

 ☯Sweet Silence, Mayaღ

Girl Talk| Handling Insecurities

Handling Insecurities 
   Actually, I think us girls worry way more than we need to. We worry about if we look good, look bad, if we ate too much, and things like that. We worry about things that really aren't even worth worrying about. I'm going to talk about handling your insecurities, and hopefully it will help you feel better about yourself. 


Too Skinny, Too Fat 
   There is no such thing as being too skinny or being too fat. Your body is YOUR body. You shouldn't be ashamed of your weight. You shouldn't go anorexic just because your unhappy with your weight. Don't let anyone tell your that you're fat because you're not. 
     Being skinny is nothing to be ashamed of, either. Don't let anybody discourage you. Nobody can tell you how to manage your body. No one can tell you that you need to eat more or eat less. Your body is YOUR body. 


Too Ugly
   Sometimes, all you have to do is look in the mirror and tell yourself that you're beautiful. If you don't believe that, then who else will? Have confidence. Don't let anyone discourage you or criticize you about anything. Everyone is beautiful in their own little way. 

           That's my advice to the girls out there. To me, I think those are the most common insecurities us girls have. You will never be too skinny, too fat, or too ugly. You are who you are! 
                  Luv Ya! 
                          ~Tashy <3

Ayo

I felt as if I have not blogged in forever. I went on vacation to ocean city Maryland and had so much fun. Anyways, I figured I'd get something in before school. Speaking of the s word- school starts tomorrow for me so ya. I'm going to start the autumn playlist after my birthday. (Which is September 16) Why? Well summer doesn't end til a few more days after the 16th meaning I have to come up with some cool songs. I'm going to add more and also change the apps of the month soon too. I havent been very busy but I just wasn't thinking of the dream squad. I just saw Tashy's last post so I hope that inspired you for the the day or maybe just encouraged you. Well, I'll stop my rambling- I just needed to catch up with you guys.
☯Sweet Silence, Mayaღ

Stay Strong

Storms Don't Last
Forever

       Stay Strong

This is for people who are going through some issues at home or is going going through a tough time. It will get better. Challenges are meant to make you stronger. Even it seems like they're breaking you down, you're going to find a way to build back up. Keep your head up and remember... Storms have to stop at some point. 
                                                                                        Luv Ya <3
                                                                                   ~Tashy

Go and do it

Everyone thinks that hiding behind a computer is what makes people dare to say what they do... Its not. People know that if you're so affected even if you're not face to face with them, it will always easy for them to belittle you. Dont take it seriously because you know if you could girl or man up you would slay. So do you, dont care if people judge. Hold your head up look at everyone and be arrogant because now and in the next thousands of years, people dont care.. and you have to live with that.
 ☯Sweet Silence, Mayaღ

Love Yourself

Love Yourself

   Here I am sitting at the dinner table. This food looks so good and I am so hungry... But I'm already fat enough. I put my plate under the table and let my dog eat the food. I sighed and went up to my room. I looked in the mirror and thought to myself, "ugh". Why can't I be like those people that know how to maintain their weight? Or eat a lot and not gain weight? Ugh.
   The next day, I went to school and didn't bother to eat breakfast. My stomach was growling throughout the whole day. I'm so hungry, but I don't want to eat. I went over to my friend's house that night to study. Her parents offered me dinner, and I said yes... Why did I do that?? As we were eating, I kept stuffing the food into my cheeks. Then, I go to the bathroom and spit it out. After that night, I pretty much kept doing that. My friends were starting to notice and so were my parents. I think it's just me being delusional. 
   One day, my mom cooked what used to be my favorite. Baked macaroni with chicken. As usual, I stuffed the food into my cheeks. As I started to go to the bathroom, my mom stopped me. "Jade, swallow your food before you go to the bathroom." 
   Busted. I just went to the trash can and spit my food out and then sat at the table. "How long have you been doing this?"
"A few months." 
I was explaining to my parents about why I'm anorexic and things like that. But then they told me that there is no need to be anorexic because they love me and so does everyone else in my family. After that, I was no longer anorexic. I've learned to love myself. 

              Anorexia is when you starve yourself to the point where you can't gain weight. Usually, people go anorexic because they're not happy with their weight. It doesn't matter how much you weigh. Know that people love you for who YOU are and that your weight doesn't matter. Love yourself.  
                                                         Luv Ya
                                                               ~Tashy 

Tashy's Story Time~ My School Talent Show!

My School Talent Show!

   My school just started doing an annual talent show 2 years ago and at the end, some of the teachers put on this little dance show and it's so funny! In this Story Time, I'm going to tell you all about the act that the teachers put on for us.

   So first, the teachers were in black hoodies and black sunglasses. And they were just bobbing their head to the instrumental of "N***** In Paris" By Jay-z. My class automatically got hype.
They ran off the stage and Uptown Funk started playing and everyone started clapping. There were 5 teachers up on the stage.

~Ms. Cascarelli
~Ms. Noel
~Ms. Mayer (I don't know if I spelled her name right)
~Ms. Carlson
~Ms. Elko

Ms. Carlson was doing the shopping cart and for some reason, I felt the need to dance, too. Ms. Noel did a cartwheel and we were all so surprised to see her do that. Ms. Cascarelli did... I don't even know what kind of dance that was. And Ms. Elko did the best dance! She did the worm and everyone went wild! I saw her stretching before she went on. I knew she was gonna do something crazy! Everyone was so hype, especially me.

   After that act, Mr. Carr and Mr. Milligan came onto the stage. "Monster" by Meek Mill was playing. They were acting like gangsters and they were throwing fake money! It was extremely funny! Then, the music stopped and "All Bout That Base" starts playing and they were acting girly! Everybody was laughing their butts off!
   After they got off the stage, "Upgrade You" by Beyoncé started playing. Mr. Milligan came out with a chair and sat in it. Ms. Noel came out and put a hat on him and then the other teachers kept 'upgrading' his look. AND THEN THE FINALE CAME!
   The teachers got off the stage and then "Watch Me" by Silento came on . Everyone stood up and started dancing! The teachers and almost every student started doing the whip and nae nae! Everyone was so hype! My friends and I was dead with laughter. When my teacher (Ms. Cascarelli) came back, we all hugged her and told her what a great job she did at hitting the whip and nae nae.

I guess you guys can say that this story time was a little short, but it's still a story...
                                                         Luv Ya
                                                                  ~Tashy

Letting Go

 I cut and cut. My whole arm was numb and all the dripped was my blood. No mater how much i cried I knew that my bullying would continue. I felt dizzy and fell back. My body couldn't move so I think its working. I heard the door open but i couldn't hear much because it felt like the Pacific Ocean was in both of my ears. Looking down at me was my mother crying lifting my body. All i heard were loud voices and cries then sirens. My body was removed from the floor of the bathroom and onto something colder but a bit soft. I closed my eyes just to sleep. I felt like my body was drowning but wont die on me.
I heard screams and shrieks. Maybe it was my appearance but I'm sure they've seen a dying girl before....

Suddenly I wasnt on the floor, I was looking at eveyone in the room including myself, so I wasnt in my body. I guess I succeeded. I smiled at them before a tear slipped down my cheek and onto my white dress.

I saw the pity on the doctors face. In front of my my mother cried heavily holding on to my father for support. He gave her the same look as the doctor. I felt sick to my stomach but still tried to put it in her mind, that I was always with her. And that night changed my life and my parents...

Adriana Loren Vigo was pronounced dead on August 13, 2015
Cause: Suicide

Im so sorry for anybody that lost someone due the the daily torment. Please, if you're thinking about it, just know that you have to learn to dance in the rain and not storm with it. 
 ☯Sweet Silence, Mayaღ

Back to School Series- DIY'S

Back to School Series 

 Since back to school is near I'd figure we'd conjure up different DIY's these arent mine and you could probably find them but i picked what would do best for you.

Erase your sticky note!
Supplies:
Sticky notes
Erasable markers (EXPO really)

- Put tape over sticky notes and use the erasable markers to write on them.

Edited Notebooks
Supplies:
Notebooks
Printer paper
Computer
Creativity 

 (PRINTER NEEDED)
- Search some images on Google. When you pick the right image save it to your computer 
-  Use  http://www.fotor.com/    or http://www.picmonkey.com/   to edit the photo and put your name on it. Print and you're done!

Chalkboard Notebooks
Supplies:
Chalkboard paint
Notebook
Chalk (optional at the moment)

-Paint over your notebook with the chalkboard paint. When it dries it should exactly like a chalkboard, in other words matte.
-Write your name and draw. Your done!

Supplies:
Pencils
Washi tape

-Use your washi tape to make different designs along your pencils.

Botton Bookmarks 

Supplies
Paperclips
Buttons (roses, footballs, colored, ect..)
Glue or hot glue gun

- I advise your glue and put it on the back of your button. Its important its not a pin so it wont have something sticking out the back. Press your button on your paperclip. 
- If you're using regular glue this will take longer so wait a few seconds.
-Then you can put them in your book

I hoped you enjoyed my back to school DIY's this is a series so for anyone out there who needs more advice we'll happily supply.
☯Sweet Silence, Mayaღ


 

Back To School Series- Advice

Back To School

School is almost back so here is some advice that might be helpful.

New Kid

Being the new kid isn't always easy, especially when it comes to making friends. If you're a shy kid, maybe you should start by talking to the people that sit next to you. Then, you have someone to talk to and you're not left hanging. If you're not a shy person then making friends shouldn't be that hard. Go up to someone and introduce yourself. Be yourself.


Bullies

Bullying can happen at any point in the school year so here is some advice to help you through with it.
Bullies only bully you because you have something that they don't. Don't say anything back to them because you don't want to stoop down the their level. Walk away from the situation. And if that person keeps bothering you, tell a teacher or any other adult. There is really no need to stoop down to that person's level and become like them. Act calm and shrug it off.


Packing

This section is for girls so... yeah.
Throughout to school year, you girls might want to have a pack of extra things that you might need.

~One thing you might need is some extra hair ties. If you have gym, you can go to your locker or wherever you keep it, and take a hair tie. I would keep at least two, just in case one gets lost.

~If you're a girl that wears makeup, this applies to you. Have some cotton balls and makeup remover. Before you go to gym class or do any activity that might make you sweat, you can easily get your supplies from your pack and remove your makeup.
When you want to put makeup on, keep mascara, foundation, and some eye shadow in your pack. If you want to keep any other makeup supplies in your pack, go ahead but I would just keep those three to keep my look simple.

~Keep pads in your pack. If you suddenly get your period during school, you have pads to save your life!

~Keep some breath mints or breath spray in your pack just in case you forget to brush your teeth.


So that's the back to school advice I have for you guys, I hope you enjoy. Also, comment if you found any of this helpful!
                                                  Luv Ya!
                                                           ~Tashy